Which one do you decide to pay for?

These past few days, I've been thinking about who I am and how other people see me. I think you should take good care of your name and be honest in that regard. Honest, helpful, cheerful, grumpy—whatever—what kind of person do I want myself and others to know I am?

I find it incredible how when we're children, we believe everything adults tell us, depending on how they say it: "You always want the best," "Don't show Zueimy what I gave you," "You're very disobedient," "You always want your own way," "You can never keep quiet." And well, I don't think it's always a bad thing to want to do what you want. Some of us are happy with sports, others aren't.
Wanting the best doesn't make you a bad person, but it always depends on how you mean it. I think when we're adults, we speak to children based on our absences, traumas, and trials. We're not perfect; we always make mistakes.

We buy into other people's ideas without questioning whether they're really worth the price, and sometimes it's even more costly when we see that their advice doesn't apply to us and lacks tact and empathy, and above all, love. For many, many years, I believed that so many things about my personality were wrong, and all of that. Today, I've decided to undo that and teach my daughter what will make her happy and a person of integrity. Teaching with love and respect, I'm sure, will make her a confident woman.

It would be good for us all to think from time to time about those words we often buy into, but which aren't true. Who am I really and what am I like? Only I can decide any adjective that is said about me.

Today I am an honest, hardworking person, always striving to achieve more and better. I'm often at my limit: on the floor or at the top of my game, but always seeking a better version of myself. Every day we can rebuild ourselves and tell ourselves: I AM AMAZING AND I DESERVE THE BEST.

I hope you enjoyed this blog 💖

With love and sincerity,

Zueimy.