You're just going about your business as usual, and without realizing it, an accident happens, and the outcome changes. That's why it's called an accident; no one plans it.
This week, I've been busy tidying up spaces in the house that usually aren't immediately obvious whether they're organized or not. Even when I've tried to tidy up or do something for the website, I'm so focused on something else that I don't notice the situation.
No one is immune to experiencing and having accidents, and I know that they can often be avoided if we look at the risks beforehand, but this week, even though I consider myself cautious most of the time, it happened to me. I'm not saying it's the end of the world, but when you realize it could have been worse, that's when you should open your eyes wider so that even the closest thing possible doesn't happen again.
There's always someone who tells you what you did wrong, and I know it, because many times, I've mistakenly been that person. I cringe! 😬 No one asks my opinion, and I think I'm more of an expert, but we only feel wiser until it happens to us🥲
Fortunately, I feel that these facts are like a wake-up call to recognize that no one is an expert in everything, NO ONE 🙅♀️
We're not perfect, and we shouldn't feel that way. We can become wiser, and we often have to learn empirically. 🙉 😐
What happens to me is that while I'm overthinking the situation, I feel more worried and anxious. I wish not a particle would move, and everything would remain intact. I've gotten to the point of wanting to be in control of many situations because I don't want anything bad to happen, and that's where I sabotage myself, and it's even worse… everything is just in my mind. I've tried to calm down and redirect my mind, but it doesn't always help. Then I think again: "That kind of thing is going to happen imminently, no matter how much you want everything to be perfect."
Eventually, an accident will happen, but I think the only thing I can do now is decide in advance what I'll do to stay calm and fix the problem. I don't know if it's the wisest thing to do, but thinking about it makes me feel calmer.
And this is where I ask you, what do you do in these cases? 🙈
Sincerely,
Zueimy✨.